I have mentioned UG several times on this blog. I didn’t come across this site until another member on WS pointed it out. The UG site is where “mongers”/”hobbyists” (johns) review “providers”, strip clubs, massage parlors that offer “extras”, etc. Some “providers” join the discussion and give their take on the “hobbyists” and where the “business” is.
There is a particular provider that was a regular in many discussions, including politics. Through reading some of her posts, she seems experienced, intelligent, strong, honest, and an overall good person. She was well liked by many on the site and off. Except for one. One who stalked, harassed, defamed, degraded, and changed aliases for YEARS. She had her wits enough to see on UG what I saw going on in WS. For calling it out for all to read, she was called crazy, unstable, a drama queen, mentally unfit, etc.
Her experience is eerily similar to the same as I’ve had to deal with in the past several months. When a woman is on to his stalking, harassing, defaming, degrading, psychopathic ways, his defence is to up the ante by coming at that woman even harder to keep her quiet. When a woman defends herself, she is then called mentally ill, when in actuality, it is that man who is mentally ill.
I love how this woman defends herself! She is admirable in my eyes! I hope she is well and that this UG stalker has not silenced her forever like he has with other women.